Get into bed, turn off the lights, close your eyes and let your imagination run wild.[Read: How to have phone sex like a sexy sassy minx] #4 Talk dirty to yourself.Erotic conversations are a great way to initiate dirty talk.Create a fantasy situation and ask your partner what they’d do in that scenario.It’s the only way you can keep sex exciting and fun, even as the years roll by.[Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas to have a sexy relationship] And dirty talking, well, that’s one of the sexiest ways to keep the passion alive in a sexy relationship.You know you want to do it, you know your partner wants to do it, but both of you just don’t know how to initiate it or even talk about it because it just feels too awkward!
It is pretty awkward to talk dirty when both of you are sitting face to face. Text your partner late at night and share a few kinky details like what you’re wearing, or how much you miss having them with you.
But when you realize that there’s nothing dirty about dirty talking, and that it’s actually really sexy and arousing, and can do wonders for your sex life, you may even start to like it!
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To start the limits conversation, exchange one idea each about something you'd like to experience. Best case: There are two new options on your sexual menu," says Dr. "Some books, like , are made to be browsed together, giving you spicy ideas and info to boot," says Dr. "Most guys don't want to talk about it while in bed," says Joel D.
Block, Ph D, author of have the issue, say, dryness, Dr. "If you don't come to a clear verbal agreement and think, 'he couldn't be with someone else,' you're lying to yourself," says Laurie Puhn, couples mediator, author and creator of the nationwide course Fight Less, Love More. "If one person is raring to go and the other gives compliance sex,' it will not only fail to be physically gratifying but also to produce emotional connection," says Grenny.